Faith-Sensitive Therapy & LDS Counseling in Lehi, Utah
Faith-sensitive therapy and LDS counseling for Latter-day Saints and other people of faith navigating sexual struggles, betrayal, and shame — you don’t have to figure this out alone, and confidential, compassionate help is available.

At Therapy Utah, we offer faith-sensitive therapy for Latter-day Saints and other people of faith who are navigating sexual struggles, betrayal, and shame. For many members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, faith isn’t a side issue — it’s central to both the pain and the path forward. Here’s how clinically sound, values-respecting care works, how it can fit alongside your relationship with your bishop, and how to move toward healing without abandoning what you believe.
Why faith-sensitive therapy matters
Therapy that honors your beliefs isn’t just more comfortable — for clients who want it, it can be more effective.
You don’t have to choose between good clinical care and your faith. The two can work together. To be clear about our role: we’re licensed mental-health professionals, not ecclesiastical authorities, and we don’t speak for the Church. We respect your beliefs and your leaders, and we keep clinical work and spiritual guidance in their proper lanes — complementary, not competing. Wherever you are, whether you’re working to strengthen your faith or sitting with hard questions about it, we meet you there without pushing you in any direction.
When faith and sexuality collide: shame, scrupulosity & “perceived addiction”
For devout members, distress around pornography or sexual behavior can be intense — but that distress isn’t always driven by the behavior itself.
Sometimes the core issue is a genuine behavioral compulsion. Other times it’s moral incongruence and shame — or scrupulosity, a form of religious obsessive-compulsive distress that no amount of “trying harder” resolves. Effective therapy carefully tells these apart, because the help that works for one can be the wrong medicine for another. Our scrupulosity therapy and individual therapy are built around exactly this kind of careful assessment.
You’re in control of information
What you share in therapy is confidential and protected by law. We coordinate with a bishop only when you ask us to and sign a written release — never automatically.
Coordination can help
When you want it, a therapist and an ecclesiastical leader working in concert — each in their own role — can reduce confusion and support steadier progress.
Different, complementary lanes
Clinical care isn’t a substitute for ecclesiastical counsel, and vice versa. Your bishop supports your spiritual life; your therapist provides confidential clinical care for the emotional and relational side.
Disclosure and church processes
Questions about disclosure — to a spouse, or in the context of a membership council — are some of the most painful and high-stakes a person can face.
Impulsive, unprepared disclosure can deepen trauma for everyone involved. We help you approach these moments thoughtfully and at a healthy pace, often through a structured, clinically guided therapeutic disclosure process that protects both the person disclosing and the person receiving it. Whatever you decide about confession or church processes is yours to make — our job is to help you and your loved ones stay emotionally safe so honesty doesn’t become a new source of harm.
Healing sexual shame without losing your faith
Shame tells you that you are bad; healthy guilt tells you a behavior was harmful and can change.
Therapy helps separate your worth as a person from the behaviors you want to change — a distinction that’s often deeply consistent with Latter-day Saint teachings about grace and repentance. Approaches like Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) help you stop fighting shame in self-defeating ways and instead live according to your values. When a partner discovers hidden sexual behavior, the result is often genuine trauma, and for Latter-day Saint spouses that can be compounded by spiritual questions and feelings of isolation. Both partners deserve support — usually on parallel but distinct paths, which is where our couples and marriage therapy can help rebuild trust.
How we work
We tailor care to you, your values, and your goals.
Reach out confidentially
Book online or call/text us. What you share is protected, and you decide what, if anything, is ever shared with anyone else.
Get a careful assessment
Together we sort genuine compulsion from shame, scrupulosity, and values conflict — so you get help that actually fits.
Move forward at your pace
From individual work to guided disclosure and couples care, we build a plan around your beliefs, your relationships, and your goals.
- Faith-sensitive care for those strengthening their faith and those navigating faith transitions or crises — without pushing either direction
- Individual therapy for shame, scrupulosity, and compulsive behavior
- Couples and marriage therapy and guided disclosure
- Coordination with your ecclesiastical leader — only with your written consent
- Confidentiality protected by law, every step of the way
- See our full range of therapy services
Will you tell my bishop what I share?
No. Therapy is confidential and protected by law. We contact a bishop only if you specifically ask us to and sign a release. You decide what, if anything, is shared.
Do I have to involve my bishop to get help?
Not at all. Many clients work with us independently of any ecclesiastical process. Others choose to involve their bishop. Both are completely valid.
Is my pornography use really an “addiction”?
Maybe, maybe not — and that’s an important question to answer rather than assume. For some, the issue is compulsive behavior; for others, it’s shame and values conflict. A careful assessment helps point you toward the help that actually fits.
What if I’m questioning my faith, not trying to keep it?
You’re welcome here either way. We support people who want to strengthen their faith and people navigating faith transitions or crises, without pushing you in any direction. Your beliefs and your decisions are yours.
You can heal without choosing between faith and help
Reaching out takes courage, and you don’t have to do this alone or in secret. When you’re ready, we’re here — with respect for your beliefs and confidentiality you can count on.
Book your intakeReady to talk to someone?
Book online or call/text 385-254-3522 — we have openings this week.
Book an AppointmentIf you’re in crisis or thinking about harming yourself, you’re not alone — call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline) anytime, or call 911 in an emergency.
